Unfiltered After 40
3 lifelong friends in their 40s get together to talk about love, relationships, parenting, divorce, and everything in between, with honesty, humor, and maybe even a little bit of wisdom.
Episodes
26 episodes
26 - The One Where We Get Political
It seemed unlikely that we could avoid the elephant in the room (pun intended), so we decided to open that can of worms and chat about the election. More specifically, how do you handle loved ones who voted differently than you, and what ...
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Episode 26
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56:57
Episode 25 - AITA for divorcing husband and leaving him with the kid after finding out he's not biologically mine?
We're back with another Am I the Asshole (AITA) episode. This one sounds like quite the mystery - How could she only have found out she is not the biological mother of the child she assumed she was? And if not, then who the hell IS the mo...
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Episode 25
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56:42
Episode 24 - Momma Trauma
What fears did your parents instill in you when you were younger that were likely completely false or irrational but you believed 100% until you were a full-grown adult - or maybe you still do?We also take a detour to talk about women's...
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Episode 24
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44:30
Episode 23 - Sexy or Scary?
Halloween costumes, do you prefer sexy or scary? Was it just fun to dress up sexy when we were younger, but we've gotten more creative now that we're older? Linda is the queen of Halloween when it comes to a party and creates her ve...
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Episode 23
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50:13
Episode 22 - Things That Go Bump in the Night
We're kicking off Spooky Season—Linda and Melissa's favorite time of year—and dragging Bel along for the ride.Join us in this episode as we share some of our favorite ghost stories from the past. We talk about Bel's almost Freddy Kreuge...
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Episode 22
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46:42
Episode 21 - We're Obsessed!
What is everyone's latest obsession?Going braless - Will nipple covers work? Cakes ‐ do they hold your boobs up?Skims, where does the fat go once you've been sucked in... it's gotta go somewhere? Can you find ...
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Episode 21
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55:04
Episode 20 - Big Tipper
Are you a big tipper? Do you always tip your nail girl, the masseuse, and the food delivery person? Do you tip your mail carrier or the garbage people during the holidays? We're sharing our horrible tipping stories and trying to dec...
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Episode 20
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55:13
Episode 19 - 40-Something Bucket List
Did you have a bucket list when you were younger? Has it changed now that you're a little older?In this episode, we're talking about our expectations then vs. now. And we dive into the ridiculous things we thought we would d...
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Episode 19
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45:13
Episode 18 - Big Girl Problems
Lets talk about the importance of female friendships and following your gut with red flags. We find out Bel got a new pet and triggers that wind you up with a new dog - why can't you trust yourself going into a pet store/shelter? P...
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Episode 18
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51:14
Episode 17 - Rational & Irrational Fears
Do you think now that we're a little older our fears are more or less? Do you worry about your car going off a bridge, falling out of a rollercoaster, being able to see to drive at night, or maybe if someone is going to abduct you from a ...
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Episode 17
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39:07
Episode 16 - The Ho in Me
Can men and women be friends, keeping it completely platonic, or does someone's feelings always get in the way? Also - did you know that statistically speaking women file for divorce more than men? Join us on this episode to dive i...
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Episode 16
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34:57
Episode 15 - Never Have I Ever
We're answering ALL the questions in this episode: Have you ever been to a nude beach? Is cereal soup? Did you have an imaginary friend as a child? Do you pee in the shower? Team Edward or Team Jacob? And lots more! Join us to hear ...
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Episode 15
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49:37
Episode 14 - Midlife Crisis
Is it a midlife crisis or are you just bouncing back from divorce? What age range does a midlife crisis fall in? What about a quarter-life crisis, is that a thing? Is it different for women than it is for men? Joi...
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Episode 14
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48:56
Episode 13 - AITA For Canceling the Entire Vacation?
Join us as we read another AITA (am I the asshole) subreddit thread: AITA for canceling the entire vacation when I found out that my stepdaughters deliberately hid my daughter's passport to get her to stay home? We also talk about ...
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Episode 13
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39:12
Episode 12 - Get Off My Lawn
Is it okay to talk on speakerphone loudly while in the grocery store? Is it right to let your kid kick the back of someone's seat in the movie theater? Is it a great idea to take up two parking spots in a parking lot? Should you ask a wom...
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Episode 12
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43:10
Episode 11 - Book the Flight, Go to the Concert - No Regrets
Was there that one concert you wish you would have gone to? Missed opportunities, and regrets - we're talking about them, and what advice we would have given our younger selves to save us from some of the mistakes we made. Plus: Con...
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Episode 11
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43:29
Episode 10 - AITA: Wife Punched Mom in the Face
Join us as we read an AITA (am I the asshole) subreddit thread from a husband who kicks his wife and newborn out of the house after the wife punches his mother in the face. Yikes! We'll also talk about abusive relationships, the val...
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Episode 10
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37:55
Episode 9 - Plates in the Sink
Did you know there were stress languages? Well, tune in to learn all about them and love languages. We're diving into our stress languages and stories about us going off the deep end. Join us for some group therapy as we ventu...
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Episode 9
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38:23
Episode 8 - Bitch Fest
Bel brought Jose to the party and she is sharing the latest update from Episode 2's "My Boyfriend Has a Wife". Plus we talk about being the firstborn, making dinner, and Taco Bell.
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Episode 8
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44:48
Episode 7 - Gen Z said what??
We have our first guest in this episode to help us as we decode Gen Z slang. Plus stick around to find out what alcohol we can NEVER consume again.
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Episode 7
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47:01
Episode 6 - If I won the lottery, I wouldn't tell anyone but there would be signs
What would you do if you hit big on the lotto? Would you tell anyone? This week we're discussing how to spend all that money and then the conversation takes a turn to how to get rid of a body...tune in!
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Episode 6
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34:06
Episode 5 - Lipo, Colonoscopies & Chin Hair - Oh My!
We're in our 40s guys... let's talk about how our bodies are revolting against us. We cover everything from the newly growing chin hairs to getting Botox and even the glorious little blue pill.
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Episode 5
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44:25
Episode 4 - The Diabolical Lie
Yep, we're talking about it. Does a woman's life only begin when she leans into the vocation of wife and mother - or can she follow her dreams, whatever they might be?
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Episode 4
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41:39